When to do a phone call
I’ve known this girl for sometime (2 years) and been trying to date her recently but she has been playing hard to get - always was
There are periods of a lot of back forth then sudden disappearance. I try to match the late response times here and there. We rarely do calls (she has called me out of blue for planning dates in recent past)
Her - that’s a nice collection (some inside joke going on) - she sent this after 4 days
Me - yea, you got any fav’s (i replied after 3-4 days too)
No reply for 24 hours. I’m thinking of calling her in an another day or so. Would it out of the blue? Or better to text - “love the enthusiasm” as she was excited about this thing we were discussing
Idk if calling is pushing further on non compliance? I never really understood when is the best time to jump on a call as Alex shows in videos
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2 years is a long time bro. She prob thinks of you as just a friend so that will be difficult. To answer your question, no dont call her out of the blue (unless that's what you guys usually do). The text is better, but give it like 2-3 days
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Thanks man. yeah i will wait it for a few days. maybe i'll voicenote it to change the dynamic a bit but not sitting on this
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voice notes are good, but i wouldnt do that as your first message. Wait until the convo is underway