So I've been talking to this one chick for a month and a half now, we vibed and connected very well through text so I asked her out on a date of course. She agrees, she's showing high interest, asking me questions, wanting to get to know me. This was my first attempt at the date and she ends up flaking last minute, said she had extra work to finish and was busy. Okay, no big deal right? I tried to get her out again before I went on vacation for 10 days but couldn't get her in before then so I would have to be patient and see her when I get back. I get back Friday and isn't available until the very next Friday but I set up the date for that coming Friday, which was yesterday. Well she flakes again, keep in mind that this chick also takes an average of 5 days to respond, I don't get needy so it is what it is. She told me that again, she had more projects to do than she expected and this that and the third. So I hit her with a take away, "Look, im busy too. But im sure we could both find a few hours if we actually wanted to" now she doesn't respond very well to this unfortunately so think I may have used it wrong, I will show you guys the texts and so I ultimately decided to put the ball in her court since she has flaked twice already and I really don't want to have to wait another week or two just to probably get flaked on again. Is making her set up the date instead of me a good or a bad move? Thank you for reading this word vomit