I don’t know what else I can add/do to improve my profile. I’m getting around 4 matches per week and I live near ODU in Norfolk, VA. It has to be an issue with my profile. Someone who’s a fucking online dating BOSS help me out please! Pictures are attached and here’s my bio:
6’3” | Norfolk, VA
- Civil Engineering, A.S.
- Trilingual
- I can dance.
- I love biking and exploring the outdoors.
- Oral Game 💯😈
P.S. - If you have the Chess app downloaded and want to get (check)mated sometime, let me know. 😉
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You can’t have duplicate photos either, so I’d keep pics 1 and 3, but get rid of 2 and 6. Pics 4 and 5 are kinda posed, and I’m not a huge fan of the fashion. I think you should get more activity pics, maybe something in nature or doing something like playing chess in a park.
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your first pics are good in the black and white, then you look gay in all the others, you need to definitely go for a more masculine look like in your first two pics.
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Agreed the first pic is really good and so is the last one. The middle bike picture I agree is too childish looking. The 2nd picture is just a repeat of the first one and is too "professional" looking. Same thing with the 2nd to last and 3rd to last. Try to get "action" shots. You hiking, you cooking, you pouring drinks.
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I’d remove the p.s line at the end, it comes across a little too gamey and try hard.
And with the oral comment I’d probably just put “strong oral skills” no emojis. Girls are ruthless and a simple tweak like that could go from “he’s trying too hard” to “oh this guys confident”. Hope this helps man
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1 is good but everything else is kinda meh
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But like what makes the pictures “meh”? Like I don’t get what it is. The pics definitely check off all the boxes/checklists that Alex mentioned. I’m trying to figure out what exactly is wrong.
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I agree that the 1st is the best one, it's a masculine pose with a natural looking smirk. The bike pictures make you look boyish and the other 2 with your eyes to the camera are a little too "blue steel"/serious. Try to get a more masculine bike photo.