What would you do in this situation?

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After not getting a reply on my third text in a row I decided to try one of Alex’s techniques from his videos and texted this girl from a “friends” number to ask why she ghosted me.
I’m not sure how much of my texts she understood in english, so my “friend” asked her in Spanish and you can see the translation in the last screenshot.

It seems like she may be busy at the moment, so should I give it a few more days or try texting her now?

For context I met this girl last Tuesday from cold approach at a grocery store, and she seemed interested from the jump. We talked a while in the checkout line and hugged outside the store. She’s Columbian but moved to Florida a few years ago so her english isn’t that good. I couldn’t build a lot of investment due to the language barrier. She’s also in her mid to late 40s and I’m 21.


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She isnt that busy, she responded to friends text but not yours. I wouldnt send "hey, come back" text as its needy. In like a month if she's really traveling atm, send her meme of Ryan Gosling and after that ask her if shes back from travelling.

Also dont like her being dog mom.

Hope that helps

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Z

66 Posts (+1), 79 Cmts (+9)

Got it, why do you think I should wait a month? That seems a bit long, but I want to know your point of view.

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You already triple texted her. The last hope for this conversation is to wait some time and to show her you have life outside of her.

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There is no screenshot to look at

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66 Posts (+1), 79 Cmts (+9)

My bad, here’s the screenshots

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