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Context: Matched on tinder, vibed, set a date, watched the sunset and made out at the beach, we couldn't take it to the next level in my/ her house (logistics problems)
Kept texting, she had her birthday next week, couldn't meet (she lives far from home, celebrated with fam), the next week she said she was busy with a friend during the weekend, then I took more time to answer due to work and we didn't text for 1.5 weeks.
I reopen her, she doesn't answer, I reengage 1 week later with "Jeeez name, my grandma texts faster than you, and she is 80yo", she laughs and ask how I am and said she hasn't done much as she got covid. I replied asking if it was bad and that we should bring more adventure to her life sometime soon, she doesn't answer (3days and counting).
How do I get her to answer, understand the underlying reason and move things forward?
Detail: she unmatched me the day after our date, wasn't sure if she deleted the app or unmatched me, but I founder her profile recently on tinder again. I am sure that she is seeing other guys hence the lack of answer I believe. On the date, I managed to get over her concerns so we made out, took her home and that was it.
Thanks in advance guys!
I would just keep trying to meet up with her once she recovers from covid and see if you can make it happen again. Not much else you can do
She is recovered now I guess, but no answer after I asked if covid got her bad, I will keep building on conversation and eventually call her out after a pattern
Yeah
Yeah man. This sounds like an issue with "Point of no return". Basically, it's a point that you get to with a girl that if sex doesn't happen, she gets weird and doesn't want to meet you again. Sounds like this is what happened
So on average if you don’t actually bang on the first date regardless of the reason there is a serious drop off of girls. Alex talks about this quite a bit in his videos. Could be a lot of reasons why she dropped off but could be a lack of investment on her end.
Very important that you do whatever it takes to fully close the girl on the date because that’s the highest form of investment from a girl.
She probably didn’t like the date you had. Also not texting for 1.5 weeks females tend to lose interest for some reason. I would let this one go and on to the next.
I confirmed it and it wasn't 1.5 weeks, it was a 6 days as she didn't reply to my birthday wishes or the ig posts I sent her. After that I reengaged, she answered and then no answer (1 week gap) until I reengaged with the line I mentioned above
Regarding the date we vibed and made out at the end by her initiative, how come she didn't like it? I can't seem to identify where things went wrong. I want to be persistent as Alex shows in his examples
''Context: Matched on tinder, vibed, set a date, watched the sunset and made out at the beach, we couldn't take it to the next level in my/ her house (logistics problems)''
Should have fucked her on the beach.
I mean it was quite cold when we started to make out, at the end she started to shiver, it is winter, didn't even put that possibility...
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