What to text, or she is a time waster ?

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R

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R

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Story: Daygame approach # in the food store. I tried to set up a meeting date during the approach but she said to text her plus "I'm a flexible girl". She said that she works nights as a supervisor at Amazon. She is online on Whatsapp only like once every day/two days.

How to further approach this situation or she is a time-waster? (screenshot attached)

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J

7 Posts (+6), 51 Cmts (+14)

This one is slow game. So keep working it at her pace while you focus on something else. I am surprise this girl is responding to you lol you sound very demanding of her time, there is no incentive, no banter, no witty, no flirting, no playful msgs, no getting to know each other lol it's just you making demands. You seem not to understand that she works a busy crazy schedule? You just rushing to the date lol. Sheesh do you even know her days off? Have you notice this looks like an interview? You just asking questions.

I would've thrown “i like a woman who's hardworking ;)” or since she's a supervisor be like “lol you like bossing people.” after she responses to that I would be like “you could get addicted to my boss energy tho 😏”

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R

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Update: I reopened 2 weeks later.
I think to text her back something like "Hey, I can’t wait to see you, If we go out on the date this is what it’s going to be like: we'll go to my favourite cocktail bar, and we will walk outside where we can see the illuminated river bridge, and hopefully we hold hands. then I will kiss you and lightly bite your neck if there is chemistry. And we will do it all in the starlight..."

Any other ideas on how to continue with it

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H

15 Posts (+3), 479 Cmts (+240)

Coming off way too needy. If she’s genuinely busy give this chick more than 48 hours to respond to you. As long as she consistently responds that’ll be a good sign.

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B

0 Posts (+0), 259 Cmts (+153)

The bottom line is your in person interaction was not good enough. But when she says "I know I'm the champion of texting back" this is a sarcastic response. You should be responding back sarcastically too/giving her some shit instead of trying to make her qualify and doing a hard close (rewarding her). When she says she can't make it, you need to just leave it and not push again.

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R

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Unfortunately, I can't change it now, but would you give me some examples of what could I say back sarcastically, give her shit?

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B

0 Posts (+0), 259 Cmts (+153)

"Better than nothing I guess" "That's amazing, deserving of an award for sure" "That's really impressive" " and throw a hoop to divert and lead the conversation forward

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M

21 Posts (+8), 174 Cmts (+37)

IDK, but she's talking about how consuming her job is so maybe ask her about it? Build some rapport with her.

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avilench . Avatar

393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)

Yeah. Seems like this is a done deal

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R

6 Posts (+6), 13 Cmts (+10)

Hi, I'm not a native English speaker. What did you mean by a done deal?

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H

7 Posts (+5), 347 Cmts (+123)

It's over. Forget about her.

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