What to say to this insult?

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J

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J

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Not sure the best way to proceed with this. It sounds like an insult and I probably should just move on but any chance of saving it?

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Yeah this is by no means over... you used a prompt to get her to reply, she replied, so it did the job, keep going. You sent her something sarcastic, she sent something sarcastic back, that's, like, fair enough. The trick is, stop being sarcastic now or you'll go back and forth being shitty to each other until one of you unmatches. Be... interesting.

Is there any chat before this? If "What are you looking for on here?" was your opener then she's called you out correctly, that's a cliche opener. If there's previous chat you haven't shared it's hard to give solid suggestions.

"Then this chat will be šŸ”„" "So give me the basics, any tattoos, kids, kinks, prison time?"
"Then this chat will be šŸ”„" "Now what's the story behind (something from profile)"

Golden rule: don't punish compliance. She replied to you, that's a good thing, your next message needs to reward that to encourage more replies

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J

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Yeah there was chat previously. Went back and forth in investment so I didn’t try to advance for a number or date yet. After re-reading through our chat I also realized I have already used the ā€œAre you always this talkativeā€ line and she didn’t respond. Oops lol.

I’ll post images of the entire conversation. I’m admittedly not the greatest at conversation. I’ve always been socially awkward and a quiet person. So much so that I didn’t talk to a single person in college. I’ve gotten A LOT better but it’s still tough for me.

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M

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Maybe she's teasing you back. That's the problem with texting (emotions can be lost). I would try to shift the conversation back into the fun zone and if she doesn't really engage then bail. Seems like you should soon go for the soft close.

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