What to say to her to regain attraction

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So this girl I fucked almost two years ago I ran into her not too long ago. Hadn’t seen her since. Messaged her on IG and said it was nice seeing you. She messaged me and said nice seeing you too even if it was a passing :)

I told her I wanted to see her again and asked if we could make that happen. She said, maybe if you’re lucky. I responded a few days later with, I don’t believe in luck, what’s your schedule like? And then she left me on reading and never talked to me after. Weeks later she’s back on Snapchat so I send her a message and say, you’re back. She goes yes. I say, looks like my luck strikes again. She goes, Maybe it’s Fate. I say only one way to find out. She then opens the message and doesn’t respond. So I decided to chill for a bit so I message her a week later and just say hi. She says hi. I say, having a party this weekend, you around. She says Maybe. I respond and say no maybes. She opens the message and doesn’t respond. (Keep in mind I respond each with at least an hour or more between messages.

My question is should I just stop pursuing her or is there something I can do to regain her attraction? I’m new to this whole pickup/ texting game, I feel like it was a lot easier in high school but that was 10 years ago lol

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Clinton Woodall Avatar

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At this point I think you need to restablish a little bit of a connection and gain some investment, sounds like your randomly hitting her up and pushing her to go on a date with you every time she hears from you

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Yeah you’re right. What do I say or do to achieve that

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avilench . Avatar

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You gotta hit her with a takeaway. I would have done that a while back. Go with "If you're too nervous, I'd understand"

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She said, Lol I’m not nervous

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Clinton Woodall Avatar

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“Ah she lives”

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avilench . Avatar

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clinton's text suggestion below

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