So I invite this chick over to my place for a wine date. When she comes over, I pour us some wine and place the glasses right in front of my sofa on the balcony and go sit there. When she comes to the balcony she immediately takes her glass and goes sit on the furthest possible chair from me and tells me she doesn't like to sit next to someone on the first date. I tell her I don't bite, but it doesn't help at all, she doesn't want to sit next to me. Irregardless of this I run my usual wine date game on her except every now and then I try to get her closer since escalating from the other end of the balcony is next to impossible. I must have tried in like 5 different ways but none of them worked. After like the 4th attempt she tells me she doesn't want to fuck me or even be close to me, and that's the reason for why she doesn't want to sit next to me. I do not believe that any of my attempts to get her closer were creepy or uncalibrated. I've been doing wine dates every week for almost a year now so I know very well how they work. Anyways, I try and dig deeper as to why she's so set on not fucking me and she tells me she doesn't have sex on the first date unless it's a fuck date, and she doesn't consider our date a fuck date since I invited her to drink wine 🤦‍♂️ There's no way she's being serious though as wine dates are considered fuck dates in my country and even girls who do not want to fuck on the first date are okay with being close to me, so there must have been a much more serious issue with attraction here. She actually hints at this because at one point she tells me she has so many options she doesn't need to fuck everyone she meets up with. She's definitely not a prude either as she told me she's once had a gangbang with 4 different dudes.

Anyways at this point I've tried pretty much all I can with regards to getting her closer, so as a last resort tactic I try something I've read from Chase Amante a while back that's specifically used in situations where the girl is extremely unwilling to cooperate. What you basically do is you remove all of your attention from her and just browse your phone. This should ideally make her either chase you or leave, but to my complete surprise, she didn't seem to care at all. What ended up happening is we BOTH browse our phones in complete silence for like 15 minutes. She doesn't even try to leave which I find very odd. She just sits there at the other end of the balcony browsing her phone in complete silence. At this point I just give up and decide to end the date. I could tell her ego was kind of bruised by this because she didn't say anything or even look at me.

I'm no blackpiller but I seriously wonder whether this could be a case of the girl not being interested in me due to my looks? I'm already very good at doing wine dates and can't really think of any another reason for why a girl would be so unwilling to come closer to me. Also, what options do I have when a girl doesn't want to sit next to me?