What should be the next move ?
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12 Cmts
5y ago
Hello fellas,
It's been a while since I haven't post something here
I just matched with a girl on bumble and she seems DTF
The thing is, I on't know if I have to go all in (and being sexual) or chit chat a bit more
Here is the convo
I want to send something like : "let's draw out the pleasure"
What do you think ?
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393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
honestly i am a bit lost on what you guys are talking about but, i think building a bit more investment before going for the meetup might be the way to go. Nothing crazy just a few more back and forth exchanges. Shes investing a bit more which is a good sign.
8 Posts (+10), 580 Cmts (+268)
You can say "That's ok, you haven't earned yours either _____ ;) " if you wanted to further sexualize. Goodluck bro
10 Posts (+0), 56 Cmts (+25)
I replied with your line and she says : « touché ! »
So, how do I sexualize properly ?
(Or maybe I don’t need to...)
I know that the key here is to flip the script (she has to be the buyer and me the seller - that’s why you also mentioned « you haven’t earned the prize either »
But I am so bad at it... (every time I tried, I failed...)
Do you have any idea of which direction to go ?
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8 Posts (+10), 580 Cmts (+268)
you're still at the beginning of the interaction if I'm not mistaken so I wouldn't go down the sexualizing rabbit hole so to speak. Touche means she's accepting your frame which is a good thing. Anyway, what you want to do now is move forward with the interaction with a soft close like "do you like wine?" or if you want to keep building some more investment you can go with the classic "So what are you looking for on here _______?" and then use the "cool girl with chemistry line" and then soft close from there. Goodluck bro