What happened here?
In the chat I refer to her 2nd photo where she is posing topless showing her ass to the camera.
My guess is I shouldn't have asked her what she was looking for. I think she was DTF, but not so explicitly be so direct about it.
What do you think guys?
I feel my text game is so crass and uncalibrated some time.
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Depends on the timing, might be too early to declare it dead and start an autopsy. I agree with your guess though, if someone's just offered to show you their boobies, and you'd like to see boobies, you know everything you need about why they're here. Don't ask them to spell it out.
There's an improv saying "agree and amplify" or "yes, and" that's useful for texting as well. You're partners in conversation, try not to negate what your partner says. Instead of telling her why she can't turn around, tell her why she can. In this case it's subtle, not a big deal, but good for flow.
"maybe I'd like that at some point ;)"
"If the front's like the back we're gonna have a good time ;)"
"I have just the place for you to do that ;)"
"would a glass of wine help with that?"
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Yeah man, that was just an overall awkward text. The combination of minor sexting and logical question. A much better text would have been. "Yes, I want to stare into those pretty eyes as well"