So I’m at this girl’s place after some mildly sexual texting. I bring wine, and we drink, but she hasn’t eaten all day and Doordashes food. The driver takes forever, she’s checking her phone nonstop and gets cranky with the delivery guys ETA, this kills the vibe a bit. We finally eat, listen to music, and make out a bit. I will say that I did miss some cues (like her saying we don’t need to keep drinking and could be doing other things). At the end of the night, I suggest we go to her room so I can give her a massage. She’s down and is okay with me massaging her and giving her booty rubs, but we’re both fully clothed. When I keep trying to take off her clothes, she resists. So I just stop and she ends up saying she doesn’t fuck on the first date (which I think is her anti slut defense). The night ends in an anticlimactic way. What should I have done differently?