what can i do here?
Got this girls snap from a cold approach, and we’ve texted back and forth since. She’s been a bit unresponsive sometimes, but that’s understandable with finals to worry about.
she hmu on snap after adding me back to ask if the approach really wasn’t a prank, and how her friends have gotten approached in a similar way before. This was something she also brought up in person, so she wanted to make sure.
she was a bit paranoid, but i sent a voice message to ease her, then this is how the rest of the conversation went
me: so im guessing you’ve never been approached before
her: nope, not once in my entire life ( if you can already tell )
me: well i guess there’s a first for everything
no reply
me: ryan gosling meme
no reply
me: are you always this talkative
her: apologizes and explains how busy she’s been with finals
me: same but i’ll still make time for you, oddities and all lol
her: haha well thank you
how are finals going
are you going home for the summer
me: they’re going well, i only got one more but wbu?
yeah but i stay in Tampa, so I usually come back to miami during the summer. you staying?
her: I have like three more ugh haha and no I’ll be going home
me: sent a voice memo that i want to see her before she leaves
her: It is rough 😭 can i ask what ur intentions are? not sure if i’m rly looking for anything rn especially since it’s the summer
me: i like to let things unfold naturally, no intentions on my end
her: alrighty
me: what u on tn
her: just w some friends wbu
me: same at the wharf rn
how long you gon be out for?
her: not sure maybe 2 ish hours
left her on open
me: what’s good how was last night?
no response
It’s almost been two days since the last text. To add some context, when i asked her what she was on that night, it was around 11:00 PM, and she replied in 3 minutes. The problem is i was already at the club with a lot of friends, and knew that i wasn’t gonna be home anytime soon. I ended up leaving her on open when she said she’ll be out for another 2 hours, and messaged her the following day.
Not sure where to go from here, but I can tell she’s a pretty reserved girl, who doesn’t have much experience with dating. How can I make plans with her, despite this?
Thank you
Why did not u go for the number? Most of the time ur text is gonna be lost among other dudes texting her and to bring comfort u can just take her for a quick walk around the campus and seed a date
I did go for the # but she wasn’t comfortable with that. Also, she doesn’t have a high snap score, so I don’t think she talks to a lot of ppl on snap anyways. I recorded the approach, and it started a little funny at first, because she thought it was a tiktok prank, and couldn’t believe I wanted to talk to her. I like your idea of going for a walk, but i’m not sure how to reengage. I think she would be comfortable with that, but what could I say to start the conversation?

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"That bad huh last night" if she responds then for the walk idea go with " u know (her name) i have been flirting with the idea of us walking around the uni to get to know each other a bit more"
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Got it. Thanks