Went on a date with this pretty girl, fit body chick. We knew each other for a year and then she came up to me and asked me out. Everything going good and we go to the movies. Through out the movies I lean in, place my hand on her lap and over her shoulder but she rejects the shoulder move saying “we’re not there yet”. She was reserved and close armed, and then after 10-15 mins she starts crying. She eventually stops and we’re talking and things are going good. I try again and this time I have her place her leg over mine, hold her hand and she looks at me but doesn’t shy away. Eventually I tell her let’s get out of here and head to a bar but turned out to be closed (Bar closed early that day somehow). We end up driving around and end up stopping by and walking around a pop up food place. She didn’t want to eat anything, even in the movies didn’t want anything. I ask her to talk me a bit more about herself and we have similar uprisings. Before I drop her off I ask her what she’s looking for, and she tells me not a relationship and I say the same I’m not looking for that. She tells me well that’s good, your not looking for anything and I’m not looking for anything. Afterwards we arrive at her place and she gets out. I’m confused as to what happened and why I didn’t get the lay, what do yah think?