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avilench . Avatar

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Welcome to the weekly live Q&A. Have all your questions answered in real time by the creator of PWF. This will start Sunday April 21st at 9pm EST and go for 3 hours. Just write your questions below in this post. See you guys then :)
Alex

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What is the most effective way in your opinion to develop strong frame overtime?

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avilench . Avatar

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Good question man. In my opinion, it is by overcoming progressively "harder" situations. If you are trying to get a strong frame when it comes to talking to women, then these should be social situations. After having gone out with hundreds and hundreds of women all over the world. It is hard for me not to have a pretty strong frame. It is because I have been in all these situations for years and thus my subconscious is confident in my ability to handle additional ones.

Let me know if you need me to elaborate on that

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Yea could you possibly give some examples of overcoming progressively "harder" situations?

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Big Daddy Avatar

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When is the last time you got oneitis?

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avilench . Avatar

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About 9 months ago, you know who.

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Can you elaborate on the restart text? Go to formats, do' and dont's, etc

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avilench . Avatar

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I gotta be honest, I'm not exactly sure what this text you're referring to is. Can you give me a little more detail?

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What are your Best DHV's for Tinder.
Or ways to Show value besides saying ur good at licking Pussy

E. g. I was on a wild Date..

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I want to preface my answer by saying that this is one of those things that is very easy to fuck up. A lot of beginners and even intermediates who are attempting to "DHV themselves" will just come off like they're bragging. Which whill be a turn off.

Really, the best way to DHV yourself on Tinder is in your pictures. If you have a picture of yourself chilling with five hot girls, that will go much further than any attempt you will have at verbalizing it. Having a dope instagram and having that link to your Tinder falls in that category. Vast majority of chicks who are interested in you will stalk you on instagram as well. Quite recently, I did an interesting experiment. I had a dope video of me chilling on a rooftop in Medellin. It looked like I was balling. I took that video, and made it my WhatsApp status. Within the next few hours, I had at least half a dozen girls re-open me, and a few of those were numbers that were growing cold. Then, I gave the same video to my friend and he did the same thing, and had the same results. The point is that showing is always better than telling.

That being said, I will either DHV in a subtle and non-tryhard way, or in a humorous way. Example of the latter would be "just finished a killer workout, looking nice and jacked for our date." Some things that I will DHV myself on are: travel, owning a business, cooking, having a cool lifestyle, and most importantly, humor (which I do just by being funny) Hope that answers your question man

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From what ppl besides yourself you have learned most to have a strong frame, good tonality, body language.. e. g. movie Characters, actors..

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avilench . Avatar

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Real Life

  • David Swift
  • Jmulv
  • My long time natural friend

Fictional

  • Hank Moody from Californication - I think he's literally one of the best characters for this kind of thing, and the actor who plays him nails it
  • Eric Northman from True Blood - He's not a player in the show, but still has things you can learn from, specifically eye contact and showing intent
  • Vinny Chase from Entourage - A good example of the power of developing SMV, being laid back, and having the girls escalate on you
  • Daniel Craig from James Bond movies - Great example of an alpha guy who does whatever the fuck he wants. Great body language, tonality, and eye contact from the actor.

Also, Russell Brand is quite interesting. His style is a little too flamboyant for me, but that is just personality. His ability to attract girls with his "I don't give a fuck attitude" and frame control is epic.

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Dave made a post about qualifying girls and getting them to invest/chase besides the typical "not sure if you can handle it?"" "are you adventurous enough". What are way to qualify a girl and ways to get them to invest/chase. Especially for those girls that won't hook on anything and give you one word answers? Also Alex, finished Total Recall a while back. Very solid read. wish I had read it earlier. This is Nnae btw

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avilench . Avatar

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Making me proud man. In terms of the qualifying/chasing, this is one of those things that is much easier to fuck up than get right. The easiest, and probably safest way to get a girl to chase/invest is to not always be the one asking questions or trying to escalate. Strategically leave that space for her to invest.

Here is an example:
Me: "What are you up to this Sunday?"
Girl: "Just hanging out, watching a movie. You?"
Me: "Sounds exciting."
Girl: "Haha, it is. What are you doing?"

Other ways are a bit more intricate and I wouldn't recommend for you to be honest man. Focus on the basics and the fundamentals. Girls who consistently give you one word answers are going to be a waste of time either way. Good luck bro

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Thanks for the answer and I agree. It does seem like the one word girl answers will never bite regardless. I know you said you wouldn't recommend intricate but still to push my learning further, if you got more examples, that would be nice. Or maybe you can make a video for everyone about it. For a lot of us, we always seem to be the ones chasing. I think it would help a lot of people to learn how to get them to invest. Thanks again

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What is the best way to learn text game? Do you have tips for the learning process?

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avilench . Avatar

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There is no better way than purchasing the online dating blueprint. I hear the guys who created it are pretty solid.

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If you couldn't get a girl straight over, where would you take her? And what time would you most prefer to set the date up?

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avilench . Avatar

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A bar or a coffee shop that is walking distance to my place. Those are really the only two options that I will do. My ideal time for a date is around 8 or 9, but that's just because I don't come alive until the sun goes down. I've had great dates that were earlier in the day as well (back when I used to be a young man).

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What are your top 3 Tinder cities? And why?

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From ones I've visited:

  1. Medellin. I was there nine months ago and was swamped with big booty Latinas. After a week of being in Medellin, I was actively turning down dates with 7's and postponing 8's. Literally felt like a hot girl with fake tits.
  2. Bogota. I was there over a year ago and it was also Latina overload. My profile was only half as good as it is now and I was still overwhelmed.
  3. Warsaw. I was there last summer and the summer before that. My favorite city in Europe that I've visited for Tinder. Yes, lots of girls are prude-ish. However, when you have a semi-decent profile, you are getting so many matches that you can screen really hard and still be left with a plethora of options. Miss that city

From what I've heard:

  1. Manila
  2. Jakarta
  3. Bangkok
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Big Daddy Avatar

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What is your favorite go-to line?

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avilench . Avatar

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"Hey trouble"

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