************* WEEKLY LIVE Q&A ( SATURDAY 8 PM-10 PM EST) *********************

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avilench . Avatar

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avilench . Avatar

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Welcome to the first weekly live Q&A. Have all your question answered in real time by the creator of PWF. This will start Saturday March 9th 8 pm EST and go for 2 hours. Just write your questions below in this post. See you guys then :)
Alex

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J

23 Posts (+21), 65 Cmts (+28)

How do you go about when a chick texts you back after the first date but then stops replying when you want to arrange a second date? I guess there are two cases one should keep in mind a) you banged her b) you havent banged her. Just let her go if you haven't banged?

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B

59 Posts (+15), 147 Cmts (+24)

How do you know if you are working leads properly after getting the number or she's just not interested/flaking/ghosting you because of her own personal issues?

I've been following the basic fundamentals of text game. I will double text once and then do a hail mary text like "Would be a shame for you to miss out on your possible future husband" and if she doesn't reply to that I delete the number, but if she responds to that, and I feel like it's going no where because she takes half a day to reply, do you just give up on her, screen her out? Because when she takes half a day to reply high value men will just lose interest for her anyways, because we all don't want to be waiting on a girl who takes half a day to flirt. We want to game girls in a way that makes her chase us, but sometimes I feel like I am giving up too soon, so when exactly do you know when to give up?

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J

23 Posts (+21), 65 Cmts (+28)

great take on it and a better phrasing of my question.

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avilench . Avatar

393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)

Good question. There are 2 separate parts for me to answer :

  1. How do you know if you are handling leads optimally? The only real way is to ask guys who have a very high success rate for feedback on your convos. The best is if you can ask multiple people . Alternatively, you can ask girls who you know will be blunt and honest with you . If multiple sources say that you handled everything perfectly, than you really know it was just the girl in question.
    Me personally at this point in the game I can usually tell just with honest self-reflection/analysis if I did everything right. However, at times I will reach out to other top guys or girls I know to get a second opinion... This is one of the reasons why I am always improving.
  2. When should you " give up" on the girl? This is based on the number of factors. The big once being: your current level of abundance, your average amount of leads, and the girl's hotness . For instance, if you just moved to a city, are still building up your profile and thus lacking in matches, and match your ideal girl you should probably take it much further than if you had 3 girls on rotation, were getting dozens of matches a day, and didn't find this girl anything special. You get my point.
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avilench . Avatar

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yes, those 2 are huge factors.
a) If you banged her : sometimes, there will be clues during your sexual rendezvous why she is not texting back. For instance, there could've been complete lack of sexual chemistry. However, assuming everything had gone well and she still ghosts you , I would send a text that goes something like :
"I had a lot of fun with you last weekend. You seem like a cool girl and I was looking forward to getting to know you better, but if you not interested it's cool."
b) If you haven't bang her: generally, I tried to sleep with every girl on the first night. However, there were numerous exceptions to this, a lot of which ultimately worked out really well. if I had a great time with the girl and she ghosts me, I would probably send her the same text as above.

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3 Posts (+1), 4 Cmts (+3)

Hey alex, do you have tips for setting up a more sexual tinder? I really just want to filter out to girls who are more kinky? But cant find a balance between too much sexual and too little. Do i still put normal pics or ramp it up to more kink related stuff?

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avilench . Avatar

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There are numerous ways you can go about screening harder. You can do it with your pics or with your bio. I recommend both .If you are in decent shape the best is shirtless pic . That will for sure be very effective screening tool. In terms of your bio you can throw something like "Dominant" or "BDSM" in there and that will screen as well.
Obviously , you can screen much more intensely than that, But, be careful not to overdo it as Tinder is cracking down much more than few years ago.

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K

12 Posts (+11), 22 Cmts (+8)

What are your thoughts on DM'ing a stunner on IG after she left swiped you? Found any success in this?

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avilench . Avatar

393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)

Well, you don't know for a fact if she left swiped you. She might have just not seeing your profile. I played around with this a bit and odds are definitely low, but it is possible.

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K

12 Posts (+11), 22 Cmts (+8)

What would Be a good opener on IG given that circumstance?

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K

12 Posts (+11), 22 Cmts (+8)

Is this only for paid members? If not, where is the link to view?

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avilench . Avatar

393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)

What exactly you are talking about?

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K

12 Posts (+11), 22 Cmts (+8)

Oh I thought it was a live stream video, now I realize it was a chat. Got it

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avilench . Avatar

393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)

Sure man, I would be happy to help

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E

4 Posts (+2), 49 Cmts (+26)

I'd love to participate in the q&a but it's a sat night, I'll be busy macking hoes. I'd think a q&a in the morning would be better for most guys in the US/latin america time zones.

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avilench . Avatar

393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)

I feel you man, I will probably have these at the different time every week

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