We've been on 2 dates. Both times very flirty, touchy, a lot of making out. I turned her on a lot to the point where she soaked through her pants. We were in a public place with poor logistics so nothing happened. We were supposed to go for a 3rd date, away in the mountains for 2 days this weekend but she just text me this. It makes sense to me because from the start she said she doesn't fuck guys she's just met. But every time we've been together it's like she's a different person.
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She's just vomiting out how she feels right now. That prob will change a few days from now.
One thing missing here is I don't see where you addressed her concern/objection about one night stands, which she explicitly mentioned. Alex has a few good responses to address those concerns, along the lines of I'm so over one night stands, that's not what I want, sex is much better after you've built chemistry, I'd ultimately like to be in a great relationship as well, etc
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I'm confused why you turned her on a lot in a public place and not pull her (or organize a date which didn't make the logistics so difficult). You basically reached the point of no return
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She was called off work and she text me straight away for a meet up. I know she likes me a lot and a part of her really wants this but her logical mind is stopping it. Do you think there's anything I can say to salvage it? I've attached the last of our chat
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You should have addressed her concerns man.. Instead of the texts u sent at 15:47, i would simply sent "who said anything about one night stands?" i dont know if that was something u 2 already talked about before tho.
Also regarding "she doesent fuck guys shes just met" if she ever brings that up again just say "we have been on plenty of dates so we know eachother pretty well now ya know"
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I'm only staying in the country for 2 more weeks and she knows this. I've addressed all her concerns in person and over text. I've stayed calm and unfazed throughout. Last date she couldn't keep her hands off me. Started playing with my dick while we were sitting on a bench in a public park. I build a lot of sexual tension and she just messaged this out of nowhere.
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Ah. Gotcha. She knows there's no future with you.
You could try laying it on real thick with how much you like her, you might fly her to your country, you've never felt this way etc.
When I was 26-27 only had been with one chick in my life, was travelling for 2 months in a faraway country by myself, I did exactly that but I truly meant it....we had an incredible on off relationship from then until I was 32, then we lost touch. Probably the most beautiful man woman experience in my life honestly.
But that may or may not work. Just sharing my personal experience. You sound kinda down bro and I get it, I've been there. I don't know if any other tactic here that's likely to work, especially given that you've gotten her super wet and horny and still no sex. She's gonna need a logical mind frame flip to seal the deal IMO. Good luck!