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Sandric Tchouaffé Avatar

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Sandric Tchouaffé Avatar

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So I've been hearing mixed opinions about using more than 5 pictures.. Some people say it's extremely tryhard to use more (a chain is only as strong as its weakest link) others say it's not. What's your opinion on me using 8 pictures? I feel like the Shirtless selfie even though it's a selfie makes me look more real because it's not "perfect" or professional, besides I'm not flexing so it's less tryhard as well.

I just like the 8th because it could be out of a movie and I look badass (it's the fav. Pic of some girls), the 3rd because it makes me seem responsible and just has a nice vibe, the 5th because it's the only one I'm smiling in, it's social, shows girls can be themselves around me and that I'm easy going.

Some German coach said I should remove 3, 5, 6 and 8 but I definitely disagree with that as that would make me look quite boring and kinda one dimensional. No way to come across as tryhard with 4 pictures but that's not painting a story of an attractive, dominant successful man with multiple facets. Also I actually think all of my pictures are different from each other and none is actually "a weak link".

His reasoning: Do you think that a guy who is super popular in real life will spend hours building his Tinder profile?

Will he carefully browse through all his photos and then select 9 to prove his worth?

Fuck no.

You can tell a captivating story about yourself in 4 or 5 photos.

Look, if you can’t convince her in 4 photos, you probably won’t convince her in 9. What’s more likely is that something in your 9 photos puts her off.

Retain some mystery in your profile. Don’t fall for the tryhard-trap by posting too many pictures.

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avilench . Avatar

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Your profile is really solid man. Overall, I think it's great. There's nothing wrong with using more than 5 pics as long as the pics you use are good quality. And I don't see any low quality pics here

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Sandric Tchouaffé Avatar

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What is your honest opinion about this bio to filter out girls who want relationships? Had a few girls open me but I'm pretty sure that many girls who would be open for something casual are swiping me left because they assume I just want ONS.

"A word of warning:

I have never really been a "I wanna girlfriend you up" kinda guy.

If you are looking for that guy (Jeeez.. how can you even "look" for a relationship, that's not how it works), swipe left. You'll simply be disappointed.

If you are looking for a memorable wine date (I said memorable, not great) swipe right and with luck, you'll have a beautiful match with me. 💫

Whatever you do, don't be another brick in the wall. Witty and creative women are clearly favored."

Just experimenting trying to find something German women can resonate with that also makes it clear that I'm not looking for a relationship. But I think this one's too obvious, even though it puts me as the price and includes a few jokes.

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avilench . Avatar

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Lol. Dude, you have a habit of asking me questions that I've already answered. No, there's nothin wrong with having more than 5 pics. It's nothing low value about adding a few extra pictures. No need to think too deep into this kind of stuff.

And, no! I'm not a fan of your new bio. Just go with the other one you had which I said was good

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Sandric Tchouaffé Avatar

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Thanks for your opinion! So you don't think it's tryhard because a cool guy wouldn't need to "show" that he's cool?

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