Update on my last post
A little update (walk date set for Friday), thoughts on this and her using "if you want"? etc a mate suggested she didn't want to seem too keen. Also ideas on how to go about the date?
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393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
stop using so many emojis other than that its fine, in terms of how to go about the date, check out the video i have called "how to get laid on the first date" The concepts are still the same
Ah thanks and will try about emoji, became force of habit. Thoughts on attempt to have her qualify here, also what topics do you normally talk about on date?
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393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
your texting is more less okay but your still using so many emojis
8 Posts (+10), 580 Cmts (+268)
A couple of things bro.
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You're overthinking this a little, she's very invested and seems keen to go on this walk so take a breath
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Try to get a little more flirtatious or sexual vibe going to get her excited about this walk
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Tone down the emojis and reply more succinctly ie: when she talks about cooking and next week etc. just go with something like: "Sounds good and looks like I'll have to make you some of my famous _____ after our walk then;)"
Goodluck bro
Ah thanks , yea tend to overthink at times. Yea was thinking that, you have ideas for how i would do step 2 and escalate/ topics to talk on the walk
8 Posts (+10), 580 Cmts (+268)
Its generally contextual, if you show me an example of an exchange besides this one I can give more accurate feedback but trying to subtly sexualize. ie: if you say you’re going to cook her something after the walk, that opens up the tangent of her coming back to yours or something and then you can kinda go from there if that makes sense.
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She seems pretty into it man. I've done walk dates before and as weird as they sound they have gone pretty well. I live in a downtown area, so I once had a walk around a nice downtown park, then just kept walking to a nearby bar (which just so happened to be located in my apartment complex). Another walk date involved the same exact walk route, only this time the chick and I packed roadies, so we were literally drinking on the walk. The point of that is plan good logistics. Don't just go for a walk in the middle of nowhere. Pick a location where it is easy to move her to a bar and/or your place.
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Ah thanks fam and yea i get you, I was thinking of suggesting a park that's few minutes away from mine and next to the river thames in London. My attempt at getting her to qualify, thoughts? What do you usually talk about on walk dates?
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35 Posts (+2), 150 Cmts (+63)
She's pretty into it, so try not to over think things. When you first meet up just start with some small talk or reference back to what you spoke on via text. After that things will flow naturally.