First date went well we made out for a while, a lot of cuddling, traded compliments and I showed her my piano skills and taught her a bit of piano and it seemed like she enjoyed. It was my first date ever and I was nervous but trying to hide she did saw through me tho and called it out and I said it was my first date but she was cool with it (atleast I think so). The day after the date she sent a good morning text and we talked nothing meaningful tho, sent her some memes and used the ryan gosling meme to re-engage and ask her for second date so this was her response, i though she would take my last text as kind of a joke but it doesn't seem like it now idk how to respond. She agreed to come over to my house on the first date so Im positive she is fine with coming over again
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yeah I personally wouldn't have said its your first date ever. but as far as the text, I wouldn't have said the breaking my heart either, people do get busy lol. Be careful with seeming needy my dude, not saying you are but it might come across that way to the girl. The make out helps but any reason you didn't close?
anyways, I'd just say something like this if you want to push for it
"I'm busy too but sure we both can find an hour or two if we really wanted to"
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Yeah I kinda blurted that it was my first date out, wasn't really thinking my best after a few glasses .
I think I could've gone further but she said some stuff like" some things you should save for your first girlfriend" and it didn't give me much courage, I did initiate the first kiss but yeah general nervousness and anxiety stopped me from doing anything else, she is gonna travel sometime to another country while I study so we agreed no girlfriend stuff as it would just make things difficult, but to be honest I found her very cool and funny and an easy person to talk to and really attractive so I don't mind whatever happens when we together.
I think your right about it came off as needy I didn't think of it that way gotta be more careful next time I actually don't mind waiting for next date but I'm worried she will lose interest.
not sure about the response you have given me gonna think some more before replying feels like im being needy and pushy