Just remember you want to build slowly up to this... start with like "wondering if you have one of my weaknesses"... or can you be the submissive type...you want to build upto this... remember girls want to warm up to you they cant go hot right away... you go to 5 pct she goes to 10pct you go to 20pct she stays at 20pct...then you go to 30pct...see what her reaction is... if she goes down to 15pct theny you go down with her... you want to ease in it even if she gives a sexual answer like that or something similar

Your various judging methods involve almost having sex with her? Lol That was definitely way too much too soon

Do a takeaway.

"I mean if you're into that sort of thing"

But def too much, too soon I think.

One thing I've been learning is that when a girl gives you sexual compliance "You'll have to be the judge of that" most dudes (Myself included in the past) will just give in and go directly for it. But a better thing to do is just remain cool like it's no big deal like you're used to it. Maybe take a tiny step back "I'm thinking 8 or 9, but I'd have to see it in real life to really tell" or "you sound very confident" (which might make her dubious of her boldness or even make her try to qualify to you)

find something that's congruent to you, just don't jump immediately when she explicitly says something somewhat sexual.

yea man you did. First off, i know you got that text from pwf, but its not something i would ever use. Overall i think that message is bad text game. In terms of salvaging this, its unlikly but you can try something like "if your too nervous i totally understand".

this could've been a soft close instead of jumping the gun. Too gamey and uncalibrated I think