Most girls I meet on hinge accuse me of being a catfish. About 90% my first messages are "are you real?" "You're a catfish" "you seem like a catfish" "no one as attractive as you would be on here lol".
It's frustrating because a lot of chicks are skeptical that I am real. On a lot of my first dates girls said they were on the fence about meeting me because they were sure I was who I am in my pictures. And I could tell because they have to get my social media which I don't feel comfortable giving before I meet someone. And I've got pictures of my girlfriend (we're in an open relationship) on my ig.
And I'm sure a lot of girls swipe left on me thinking I'm a catfish. What should I do to make them believe I'm not one?
Yeah just post something on your profile that a catfish would never post. Like "let's FaceTime first so I know you're not a 300lb black man" or maybe post your snapchat which I think catfish don't use since its realtime pics/vids I think. The best part of video calls is it at least for me has a higher close rate and lower flake rate.
But yeah man you being lean af is prob the reason. You on anything to help that?
Yeah, I've added "If you think I'm fake, we can FaceTime" to my Tinder and Bumble bios. But what about Hinge?
And Im a fitness model🤷🏻♂️ But do you think this one's better than that pic?
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Yeah use this one instead of that last one. It's kinda posed, but the shot & lighting is much cleaner.



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Try being uglier. Works for me.
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Lolol