“nothing crazy a little chocking hair pulling and spanking you hard enough where i leave my handprint on your ass for days”

Her response has BDSM nerd written all over it. Alex has videos on this, but basically she’s very into the “kink community” and unless you know all of the terms and slang in that community, it might be a lost cause.

"I'm a soft dom. I take charge. Use the right amount of pain and I like a woman who's only sexually submissive. Not into degrading someone"