Thoughts on public-only first dates
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5 Cmts
5y ago
- Would you guys agree to a first date if you know it's public only with no chance of pulling?
- Are there any tips to sexualize if it's just a public date, or do you only sexualize once she's in your home?
I had a public-only date today and I think I friend zoned myself with my behavior.
G
39 Posts (+8), 697 Cmts (+226)
I have taken a few of these dates because Im arrogant enough to think I can make it happen, always regret it.
Sexualizing on public dates is definitely. Hold silences, use innuendo, smirk and eye contact. Learning to calibrate to a girl's responses is the difficult part IMO
57 Posts (+12), 282 Cmts (+81)
I've had some public only dates and imo it depends on the type of a public date. Picnics are one of the best. What I usually do is just get-to-know her while building some sexual tension with kino and vocal tonality, and then at the end of the datw amp up the physicality a bit and kiss. Also an important part of public dates is to get the girl invested. If she doesn't have a car never offer to drive the girl home or shit like that because then she will be forced to invest more into the date.
26 Posts (+16), 191 Cmts (+106)
You do picnic first dates?
57 Posts (+12), 282 Cmts (+81)
Yeah, if I know I wont be able to pull her I'll do a romantic picnic date at some place that has a good view of the sunset. It's easy to escalate since you'll be sitting side by side drinking wine. Stop the escalation at the kiss though since you can't pull.