Matched with this girl on HUD. This would be the 2nd time I meet someone from a dating app in person, 1st hookup. Thoughts on our interaction? What can I improve on? Honest to god I was Half asleep last night and something got into me while we were messaging. I’m not gonna bring her to my place(I’m 20 and live with my parents atm), and I feel sketched out going to her place. Her profile says shes 25. Gonna probably meet at hotel and take it from there. Speaking of which, what should I do in person to make it all the way? Also, I do feel I should have sent a dick pic instead of a picture of myself, due to the context being sexual. General thoughts?
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I would follow up with "Don't think too hard now". But also when she said "Can't wait", I would have just moved things towards the close
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Aye thank you Alex, thought I had to keep it going but after I reaalized I could’ve confirmed Friday night with her
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Ok a couple things here:
She seemed VERY dtf (she responded quickly, sent you pictures etc.) - you want to take advantage of that, instead of saying 'when are you free' - go with something like 'Feeling spontaneous tonight?'
The body pic was fine, never send a dpic unless the girl expressively asks for it. Also, stop emphasizing your 'romantic' date because from the back and forth, it's clearly not going to be a 'romantic' night - you can say 'exciting date' instead
She's already down to meet, no need to keep droning on and on, you guys already had banter, already sexualized etc. - now move for the meetup. Instead of asking her about her kinks/exes - go with something like "Saturday or Sunday?;)" since she said she was free weekends. Move for the meetup as soon as you can, especially with a girl like this.
Hope this helps bro
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Aye thank you thank you. It was already late and if I took off I probably fallen asleep at the wheel. In terms of the dpic, I think Alex had sent one in one of his videos and said it was a risk or something. In terms of the romantic date you’re right. Nothing else would come to mind but perfect, thank you. We got a meet up set for Saturday, I’m gonna send her the addy to one of those “executive” hotels. Any advice to not let the conversation die out? She hasn’t responded to the last line so I was aiming for a “Don’t think too hard”. All in all though, thank you a lot for the advice 🙏