This is most difficult text i have ever had. Help needed
She was acting all offended at the start but I don't want to apologize for something so small. I tried to not give her the power of BUYER even tho she was acting like one.
I am not exactly sure If she is bratty or just a dumbass. I am sure i have made plenty of mistakes too which doesnt help my case.
Seeing from her pics, she is 5 out of 10. she is into cosplay and video games. I assume is surrounded by simps. which is why i think even tho we are not really having any chemistry, she is still replying to my text. I am not 100% sure if thats the case.
Usually i would not really bother this much if the chick isnt hot but I think its a learning experience which can help me with other girls.
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9 Posts (+5), 212 Cmts (+56)
You're treating her like a DTF girl when she's not. That's why the interaction didn't go well...
You're being sexual, and she's just not receptive to sexting... It actually turned her off.
Might've worked out if you switched the sexting with teasing her and asking questions about herself...
But hey! Maybe that's not what you want, so who cares... You guys are just not on the same wavelength
90 Posts (+21), 349 Cmts (+123)
Yea bro this is why I’m not a fan of sexualizing right off the bat like that, you gotta gauge the girl to see if she’s the romantic kind or the dtf kind
Good lord, I would've bailed long ago. Good for you for trying to stick it out, but it doesn't seem worth it to me tbh. I think making assumptions about her hurt you since it turns out she's very bratty and doesn't want to play along with the gamey talk (went through a similar situation myself recently). After she replied to the kinky assumption, you could've said "Am I wrong?" let her speak for herself, and then have a more straightforward conversation, bringing up the idea of a possible date once she warms up to you a bit. It's more work than it's worth if she's a 5 but good practice I suppose.
5 Posts (+0), 68 Cmts (+29)
This is literally frame battle after frame battle lmao. I think it came off confrontational, because she giving off yellow lights and you still pressed on.
Most of this is a mess so i’ll let Alex give his thorough evaluation lol. Anyways i’m gonna spitball here for your last text since you really got nothing to lose since this girl is past the point of being cute.
I would say “I think we tooks things a little personal especially still being strangers. We should start over again yeah? ;)”
I mean your game is fairly decent overall. But I think the kinky part was just uncalibrated. Far too early in the interaction. How do you know she’s kinky? And if she’s a 5/10 is she really worth the trouble?
When you steer the conversation in a sexual direction, and the girl is somewhat in the middle, it’s worth considering getting sexually aggressive at some point in the interaction so you get a firm yes or a firm no. Calibrate obviously.
You should probably say something along the lines of “looks like we got off on the wrong foot. How about we start over?”
Although to tell you the truth, you’re probably better off pursuing other women.
Bro well done on being so patient and witty. Respect. This level of brattyness would make me lose attraction for the girl.
She needs to be fucking calm
14 Posts (+1), 273 Cmts (+34)
this isn't brattiness. this is how girls respond to uncalibrated texts
He was patient but uncalibrated tbh
14 Posts (+1), 273 Cmts (+34)
yeah i feel like he caused all of the problems...
the whole time i was wondering why she put up with all of his shit and kept responding. then i read she's 5 out of 10. makes sense now
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
bro, this chick is just being a massive cunt. Her personailty is a one out of 10. If you said her looks are a 5/10 then why even continue talking to her. i would have trolled her a long time ago. No need to keep engaging with someone whos not attractive and a shit head. Value your time above all else,
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I will keep that in mind, Thanks Alex.