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She's just being a pussy. Sorry that happened, brotha. Happened to me with a chick that I was excited about. Looking back on our interaction, we had had a very sexual vibe, and my assumption is that she felt over committed to fucking me before we had met, and she freaked out. So it was a learning lesson, I use the terms "no expectations" and "no pressure" often now. Live an learn man
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I just tried the no expectations on a girl I was over sexual with originally through text. She agreed to a date tomorrow night and is excited about it. It works even after as well! :)
It’s so funny how this works when the girl is the literally the one saying things like “your not gonna cum in me right? It feels so good but we can’t risk it. I wish you could” yet goes cold before a date lol.
39 Posts (+8), 697 Cmts (+226)
Yeah, it goes to show how differently a person's (especially women) behavior can be depending on their emotional state. Sometimes I will use it to qualify the chick "I know that we've been steamy over text, but I want to be sure there's spark first before we do the things that you want"
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Post the screenshots. Maybe there's something you're missing here
10 Posts (+6), 33 Cmts (+9)
Sorry unmatched on tinder and I deleted her on snap after blocked. The text game was carbon copy of yours. The only thing sexual was this.
Me: what’s your snapchat trouble? (I’m doing better with younger girls on snap)
Her: Trouble?
Me: your telling me a girl that looks as good as you isn’t causing any trouble?
Her: I can be as much trouble as you want me to be...
Then she sent her snap. From there it was a 2 pics of each other and one of me in the sauna and her in her bath. Then a date for this Monday on the beach with wine. I think this was my first real just nervous flake or she had a bf.
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
This is not my textgame bro. there's elements of it in there, but first off, I would not say "A girl that looks as good as you...". Secondly, I would definitely not do snap as I find it significantly increases flaking compared to a phone number
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I'm sorry to hear that man and yeah girls do that shit. Either she freaked out or for some other reason decided against it. For me I compare picking up chicks to baseball. No matter how many times you strike out eventually you'll hit that homerun. Its normal to be bummed after a flake but don't let it get to you. You'll get there I believe in you
10 Posts (+6), 33 Cmts (+9)
Thanks man! I have no problem setting up lots of dates but the ones I mess up always hit me like a brick wall. It must be because I’m new to this still. Give me like 50 chicks and I’ll be over this lmao.