This girls keeps dodging my attempts to set up date

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M

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M

37 Posts (-2), 21 Cmts (+3)

Since I tried to soft close and set up a date, it’s been taking her longer to respond. Don’t know if I should just have a normal conversation and when she’s invested again go for the date. What do you guys think

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J

10 Posts (+1), 471 Cmts (+173)

Here is some feedback:

It seems to me the girl was just playfulling talking about the meetup, and then you jumped the gun way too early asking for her schedule. Sometimes, girls will commonly do it just to

see if you get over-eager. Don't let it fool you. The best course of action though is to actually pull back even more to reinstate yourself controlling the frame.

The second thing you did improperly is you try to date pitch her again after she indirectly changed topics (this is her way of saying "Hey, I like this, let's keep it going".) What you

should have done was took this opportunity to vibe more and gain her investment. Now, what you need to do is banter a bit more. "Glad to hear ;) what do you do for work btw"

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M

37 Posts (-2), 21 Cmts (+3)

Thanks a lot man. That was very helpful 👍🏾

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V

3 Posts (-9), 364 Cmts (+9)

Where is the close"do u like wine?"
What is ur schedule like
Pick a day then confirmation

Here u did wrong is u need move text from dating app to text messages

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avilench . Avatar

393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)

"All is good. I do have a serious question though"

When she responds, say "Are you still interested in meeting up"

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