"I set the rules, but I'll give you control"

That way you're dominant and still give her what she wants. With your permission.

I’d just move it fwd towards the close “I guess we’ll have to find out in person. Do you like wine”

Tbh in my experience when girls say this they actually end up still being submissive for most part but just enjoy riding on top cowgirl where they feel like they are some what in control

"Well, this is going to be quite an adventure then"

“That may or may not happen, play your cards right ;)”