The why must it be me who drives to you objection

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This is the one objection I always struggle with and it's usually with high interest girls who are either lazy or eastern europeans who expect the man put in the effort early. You'll be in the middle of date planning and they will realise that involves them travelling to you. It then becomes an ego battle of why should I be the one who travels to you, you should travel to me or worse suggest meeting in the middle which is completely pointless for a lay logistically.

I've had no success getting around this with "you drive to me this time and I'll travel to next time". In the future I'll start saying my car is in the garage or inventing reasons I can't travel because I've lost too many leads because of this.

Have any of you G's got strategies to overcome this one? Example attached in wrong order

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Addressing the fuckboy concern, better spoken rather than text:

I have no expectations. I just got to town like last week so I'm gonna be honest with you. I'm gonna go out on a limb and be emotionally vulnerable here. If we vibe well you know I might wanna see you again, I know nowadays that's kinda not the new normal but it might be nice to have a fine chick around who's into travel & who's also good energy to be around, I'm kinda looking for that. So let's see what happens

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I gave up dexter shit for lent, you're good

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