Bit of an esoteric post
Just wanted to share my thoughts on a "phenomenon" that happend to me couple of times over the last few weeks and months:
Being this type of player or ladiesman, one is optimally perceived by women as such.
Which is good and bad. Usually women are more open towards you sexually and don't create this "three dates and you can fuck me" frame for you, etc.
However, lately I've been getting a couple of these "hey I need to tell you, I met someone...." messags from girls after seeing them for a couple of weeks or months. Then of course they want to break it up with you, even though you'd like to bang them some more.
Usually I just wish them all the best. You guys feel like this is just part of the game ? (i.e. you were the player she wanted to have fun with but now it's time move on)
P.S. And dont get me wrong I'm not complaining about that. Maybe it's just the fall wheather that makes you sentimental. :D
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I get that all the fucking time it's so annoying. This Adam Lyons video has some insight to the claim but its not always useful. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Djfh1UDvsBk
Maybe youre not as good at setting frames as you think
it does happen, for sure. even with 11/10 game etc there are variables you simply cannot account for. but unless im misunderstanding you, it seems like you get the issue quite frequently. if im seeing a girl, usually im top her list of people shes interested in. ocassionally, someone else has more clout, but its somewhat rare
emotional connection is huge (main thing?), as is everything else Alex said. I dont know how else to phrase it except literally being the best option. girls usually have shittier dating lives than you think so its not that tough per se
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Yes, happens to everyone.
You can significantly minimize the likelihood by being a lot better than any guy she's likely to meet. Mainly, fucking her better, being cooler, being funnier, and being much less needy. Also, building an emotional connection can go a long way.
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Yea I think I gotta work on building an emotional connection more.
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What's a good response to when I girl says she met someone?
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
“That’s cute. Are you guys gonna get married”