texting help

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are my texts okay?
will text game change anything. since we had a long first interaction?

context: from daygame I had an instant date (1h20min) with the girl and semi agreed to meet again. she'll be studying this whole summer for an exam.

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The only issue I see with your textgame (Although it is a big one) is that you're going about closing sub optimally. Basically, going from sending memes to asking her to stop studying at this very moment and come meet you is a big compliance jump and will often result in neutral or negative compliance if the chick isn't super duper into you. A much better approach is to ask her a general question that you already know the answer to. Then when she responds positively, you go for a soft close, "Do you like wine?", then you go with "Good. We should get together sometime soon" And then when she positively responds to that, you go for a hard close and ask her "What's your schedule like?" or "You free xxx or xxx evening?". This stuff makes a huge difference man

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