01:28 am. Monday night. Bali.

Just came back from an epic second date with this American chick I met in daygame.

And for some reason there is whipped cream and Durex lubricant all over my favourite oversized T-shirt.

2 weeks ago I was walking here in Canggu, Bali on a field for relaxing and potential lead generation purposes.

Suddenly a tattooed chick walks past me with a booty I’d notice from a mile away.

Holy shit it’s a big one.

I mean two.

Hooking is super easy, she is literally just walking around listening to music. [OPEN+HOOK]

Plus it’s Bali.

Damn.

It’s as if this island automatically removes all bitchiness and judgement.

While creating this heavenly environment of open-mindedness, positivity and potential Ayahuasca trips with shamans in the jungle.

Anyway we have a 10-minute chat where she invests a reasonable amount, but nothing crazy. [SKIN IN THE GAME]

We agree to have wine sometime but the plan is a bit vague. [TIME-BRIDGE]

Then the texting stage starts.

Screenshots attached in the Facebook group.

I always struggled with texting real life chicks but after the many hours of practice and guiding from IndianPE this got waay better.

For the reopen I usually use “Hey troublemaker”, but I thought this conversation had certain inside jokes I could use.

In fact: every 10-minute+ convo should contain certain inside jokes you can later on use in texting.

I asked her if she’s been a good girl over quarantine to which she said “sometimes”.

Thought it would be good to use that to my advantage as it’s kinda tongue-and-cheek + it’s callback humour which indicates that I was actually present during our chat. [VIBING]

I go straight for the soft-close afterwards which she does not respond to for 2-3 days.

Re-engage with the standard shy line, to which she responds with a picture of her laptop with the caption “I’ve just been really busy”.

After that she actually double-texts and it went from there.

Before the first date I already had a good feeling about this because the texting was so smooth, flirtatious and fun.

During the date I felt I could just let loose and don’t need to think much about DHV, moving it forward, making her qualify, sexualizing and all that.

The funny thing is these things all happened by default.

It definitely helps that I’ve been practicing this shit for many years + it’s Bali + she’s cool + the texting was super solid in the first place.

Anyway we have a great chat, plus she tells me she doesn’t fuck on first dates. [Meaning = she’s thinking about fucking]

The interesting thing is that I actually really enjoyed her company + I closed 2 girls in the past 2 days so my levels of abundance were very healthy.

I tell her “honestly babe, I don’t give a shit if we end up fucking tonight or not. I just enjoy your company and wanna continue the chat”. [DISQUALIFY SEX, REMOVE PRESSURE, ENHANCE NON-NEEDY FRAME]

Which is how I truly felt.

Which I think is important.

Anyway we end up going to her place and nothing happens.

Oh yeah actually she initiated a makeout at some point.

It’s just a short kiss though and I pull away at the end.

I jumped on a few sexual innuendos and added some sexual tension at certain points to test her compliance levels but did not force anything at all.

Everything is her body language and verbal communicating was telling me: “you’re really cool, I really like you, and I wanna fuck, but not tonight because I might feel a bit weird afterwards (and I’m on my period)”.

I attempted to escalate a couple times but now I’m glad I did not do more because this girl was meant to close on the second date.

I think it would have been possible to bang on the first date but then there would have been a slight risk of buyer’s remorse plus we would not have been as comfortable with each other yet to have the epic sexual experience we did ended up having.

I grab a gojek (the Indonesian Uber) as it was getting late and end on a high point.

Agree to meet up soon.

Texting was fun again and she invites me for “dinner with whipped cream” to her place.

Arrive at hers, chat for like 30 minutes with some wine, and then I offer a massage.

She gets super turned on.

But I don’t just take my dick out and start fucking, wanna make this a proper experience.

I brought some strawberries, and she got the whipped cream.

So I squeeze with cream all over her tits and top it with strawberries. Lol.

Other things happened shorty after.

All of them.

Key learning points:

1. Patient game. Sometimes it’s way better not to force the issue if a girl is not entirely ready to close and solidify for the next meetup. The sex is usually better that way anyway. I’d still attempt to close and play to win but wanna avoid having an agenda at all costs.
2. Texting. This is the thing I am most happy about with this interaction. If I compare this conversation with the ones I was having before joining pwfmm and IndianPE it’s ridiculous.
3. Learning to lick pussy well. Got complimented on this which I was very pleased about.
4. Take off your shirt if you wanna lick whipped cream off the tits of your girl. Just friendly advice.