Hey guys, need your advice here. Had a date last night, led to intense makeout session but no sex as she had a lot of LMR. She hinted that sex could happen next time and texted after saying she had a good time. I also seeded the idea of a second date a few times at the end of the date. My question is, how soon should I start hitting her up for the second date? I don't want to come off as too desperate, but I also don't want to wait too long and lose all the sexual tension I built up.
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You definitely don't want to wait too long. I would go for the second date a day or two after your first one. Just text her a bit back & forth and feel out the vibe. I have a video on the channel about this very thing. It's called something like "How to text girls you did not sleep with" Check that out
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Thanks bro, video was on point as always. Tried texting her but she's being unresponsive, guess it's a lost cause.
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Thanks man, yeah sometimes when you get close to sex but it doesn't go down the girl's anti-slut defense kicks in. I've personally experienced this several times. That's why I'm a big proponent of really trying to close on the first night. That being said, 2 of the girls I'm currently seeing were second date closes. So theirs always exceptions.