Text Help - Girl says not looking for sex on date
Ok I'm back. This girl is southeast Asian living in U.S. Pretty sure she was born in Asia and then moved here because I can tell from her English. Don't have screenshots since it's on another phone but essentially we just set up the wine date. I'll be going to pick her up and we'll go somewhere with a nice romantic view of the city. I prefer actually going out to do something together rather than just her come to mine (I enjoy actual dates). So we figured out logistics and sharing wine, etc. and then she says
"Sounds good"
"Just so you know I'm not looking for sex tho"
Maybe they are more reserved when it comes to sex in Asia or something. I'm pretty sure Alex has a video on replying to this but don't know which one. Was thinking I could say one of these:
"Lol get your mind outta the gutter girl"
"Lol I only have sex after 13 dates"
"Lol no worries, I hate sex"
"Lol no worries same here, so what are you looking for"
Or anything else. What would you say?
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I’ve seen Alex use the I hate sex line and it’s usually effective because the girl will then say she doesn’t hate it but is basically not a ONS type of girl.
In this reply I’d drop the lol and Re-phrase it “me either, I hate sex”
True that makes sense. Yeah I added the lol because I didn't want it to sound like I actually hate sex. What do you think. Plus she's foreign, so do you think the joke could get lost in language difference
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I would assume most people would pick up on the sarcasm. However, if not, then now you’re on the subject of talking about sex haha. But if she’s that foreign then maybe just add the lol.
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"Good. I hate sex"