Yo, I am texting with a girl I am supposed to meet on Friday she flaked once on Saturday, said sorry she can't I overinvested as I really think she is hot and she is quite dirty and checky. She wrote to me she likes doggy, blowjobs and to be chocked and is very open about sex. She is only 18. I told her I want to fuck her raw via text, yet when I listen to my voice mails I sound like a wuss, I like to transfer that energy rather raw in person.
The point is she does not reply anymore and made herself a new account on the dating plattform. I texted the new account as well as, yet she replies to sexting a lot, should I sent her smth. like in this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9kP0weye1RE from Alex.
What can I do? Say to her via voice mail, when we get to my place and kill a couple of bottles of beer I'll carry you over to my bed, brush your hair away and bite into your neck untill you feel the domination drive you crave for. I'd love to send the screenshots, yet the whole conversation was in German. (She likes beer more than wine)
I just asked casually how is your Wednesday going to prevent a flake. I am unsure what to do. Any advice? She replied two days ago, now she's not replying. After asking texting her on the app and on WhatsApp.
I have one more date next week, yet I am unsure what to make out of this whole situation. She often tells me she can't sleep. She is now online, yet does not reply to any messages. I am fine with her not texting back and just moving on.
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Post screenshots man, so we can take a look. But overall if a girl is responsive to sexting but disappears when it comes to logistics, there is a very high likelihood that she is a timewaster.
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I posted screenshots, it's in German. She basically says she loves doggy, chocking and blowjobs etc. and I tell her let's meet Saturday 20:00 she says 21:00 I am like sure I can pick you up, she says I can also go by train, I tell her no I pick you up. She tells me I can have her address on Saturday, on Saturday she tells me she send me Othe adress in 1h, I tell her I buy some stuff. Call her to make sure I am human. She tells me sorry won't work. I tell her goddamn now I have to go out, then I went out with friends. She posts pictures of her chilling at home apparently chatting with her bff in turkish. Posts some hiphop stuff. We are still chatting. I told her I have Corona we would have meet today, she said "OH HA" basically being suprised and noticing how serious the situation is in a sense (some drama), we talk about hip-hop she tells me via voice mail she loves hip-hop and laughs and I stopped saying anything after that. As I felt sick and needed some sleep.
What is your opinion about voice mails as indicator of interest? As she sents out more voice mails than me, yet shorter ones.
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What dating platform are you talking about ?
Everything you do now is being needy, wait a few days and reopen (regardless of your date).
Screenshots would be good.
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Here are two screenshots, I already reopened. After waiting 3-4 days. Consider average advice will not work, I've texted close to 1k girls now. I don't know if you speak German. I tested an app called Jaumo that has the highest rating on the appstore here in Germany. That is from where I know the girl from.
I did not even test Tinder, so far that is how far I was willing to learn this stuff. I contracted Corona so I can't meet her. Last messages below is telling her I have Corona, one girl I approached on Saturday in a bar had Corona. We got her number...
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