Terrible close rstio

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I’ve only closed 4 girls this year but I’ve had 25- 30 or so girls in my apt this year. Some of them made it to my bed but wouldn’t put out or tried to make me wait for sex.

How do I kill the nice guy in me and overcome this? I find that I almost give up after any initial resistance or sometimes the girl won’t give me an opportunity to make a move.

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that is pretty bad man, the fact that you give up after any sign of resistance is definitely a big part of it. It is common for a girl to give you a little shit before putting out. A lot of chicks just wanna see how you'll handle it and weather you are man enough to go for what you want or do you give up or get butt hurt. That is why its essential to be persistent (of course common sense applies here. You dont wanna come off as pushy or rapey) i see your part of the mastermind so i recommend making a detail post outlining everything you think is going on thats affecting your mental state and ill make a voice memo with a response to your typical situation

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You may benefit from reading No More Mr. Nice Guy, or at least listening to the audio book. The book's name implies it's red pill or something, but its really not. It's more about getting in touch with your desires and being able to express them and this sort of thing, including sexually.

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Thx I’ll check it out

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25-30 agreed to come over but you only smashed 4? Lol wtf. It could be related to your looks. Post your tinder pics

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Pretty sure it's not my looks.

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