She just isn't into you man, this most likely isn't going anywhere."If you're shy, I'd understand"

Sounds like she doesn't have enough comfort built up... but I can't say I know how to respond in that kind of situation.

"I know a good way to know each other"
"Do you like X?"
Her - Yeah
"We should split one soon"
Her - Sure
"Send me your number so we can set it up"

I would say this .Cuz we are going to split a bottle of wine in my romantic patino