Some good generic openers at bars/night game?
55 Posts (+3), 250 Cmts (-275)
any variation of these are low value:
"Hey how's your night going"
"I thought you were cute and wanted to say hi"
Boring openers you cant say because they are "boring". I have poor results when I use any of the openers at a bar during night game. During the day, these openers can be very straight forward and effective, but a night club/bar they will almost always come across as boring. I know this because I am very charismatic and good looking and do extremely well online, but my night game could use some work.
Women (7+/10s) now expect you to say something witty/funny and immediately banter without any small talk.
Let's get a list together of some good generic openers that can be used in any bar
2 Posts (+1), 9 Cmts (+5)
I’ve had good success with “Hey, I just noticed you and wanted to introduce myself” (kinda generic but authentic and not try hard).
“I’m Brad, what’s your name?”
“Are you getting crazy tonight or keeping it lowkey? (raise eyebrows and smirk)
Then I like “so what’s your story” or “so tell me your life story, but try to keep it under three minutes...haha I’m just kidding” - these are usually money, not the boring shit guys usually ask. Opens up for a lot of responses to converse on. Keep it light and fun
Not something generic and a bit situational
In a club(or a bar but works better in a club) when you have a girl next to you and your friend
Go to the girl and tell her "Do me a favour, I'm going for 2 minutes watch over my friend here, and if anybody gives him trouble. beat him up" obviously say it in a sarcastic/joking way.
And then just walk away and come back and be like "was there any trouble?" And the girl will just play along and you can take it from there.
Yes it's dumb and first time I did it was completely random and without thinking but I tried quite a few times and for me atleast it worked really well.
35 Posts (+2), 150 Cmts (+63)
If you and a girl make prolonged eye contact. Walk up to her and say "If you're going to check me out like that you should at least say hello." Kinda douchey/cheesy but works really well
5 Posts (+11), 22 Cmts (+11)
not bad, may get a cheap laugh/smile but wont really pique her interest beyond that
40 Posts (+22), 151 Cmts (+51)
It’s a great line to open up conversation.
12 Posts (+6), 79 Cmts (+53)
I like this. But with hotter girls I think you should be expecting a shit test after