I don't this is bad at all bro, she just has reservations about expectations because she's meeting a "stranger," you should look to reassure her with something like "I'm also looking to meet new people and I don't have any expectations, just want to share a glass of (wine or whatever) and get to know you some more" or maybe even just the first part of that. Goodluck bro

“Hey, thanks for opening up about that. I’m looking to meet and share good vibes. No unfair expectations”

Thanks for the suggestions guys, I went with "lol I go with the flow, no expectations" and she came over. We made out a little but then she wanted to leave shortly after. I thought we vibed well and laughed but maybe I needed to be more seductive?

Say "No expectations on my end... I don't even know if you're fun yet" and let her qualify. If she qualifies, say "Cool, I'll see you this (insert_day) at X time, have a good day!"

If she turns back the question saying "what about you, are you fun?", Tell her "You'll get an answer this (insert_day) 😏. I'll see you then, have a nice day!"

I would meet bro, if she’s coming over she’s likely at least a little dtf. If you don’t smash it’s good to sexualize & be flirty and keep a good first impression so that you can next time. However don’t get super close to sex and not seal the deal or that’ll ruin everything

yea man i would still go for the meetup. These kind of messages don't mean anything. This chick might still be dtf regardless. You have to focus on actions rather than words. Even if she says shes looking for friends she's still coming to your place meaning that likely some part of her wants to get fucked.

I would say something like "no expectations on my end. I like to see how the chemistry is and go from there"