Should I pick up this conversation?

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A

7 Posts (+8), 18 Cmts (+6)

Not sure how to proceed here. Bumble message came after the texts.

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J

10 Posts (+5), 24 Cmts (+4)

The opening texts were amazing. I think you were being too gamey when you moved over to iMessage, I noticed that this convos lack any logical small talk, you're trying to push too hard to have an emotional convo e.g when she asked what's your sign instead of making a joke ,you should have responded logically. The dudes with the best text always try move the conversation forward and they do this by blending logic and emotion into conversation.
I think towards the end she picked up on your gameyness and was just giving you shit for the fun of it
When you get her number open her with "hey it's (name) from the thing " nextime

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A

7 Posts (+8), 18 Cmts (+6)

Yeah, I’m still too to learn that line between normal and too gamey. Usually, so boring so I’m probably overdoing it now. Doubt she’ll respond on Bumble, we’ve already been texting, any similar lines to re engage the conversation?

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J

10 Posts (+5), 24 Cmts (+4)

It's pretty much over:(
My only suggestion is to reengage her a week from now(you want her to "forget you"), you can use the Ryan Gosling Hey Girl, Happy (day of week) to open
Good luck

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avilench . Avatar

393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)

She’s very much a brat. Check out my video on “how to Text bratty girls”

But in terms of moving forward, I’d just keep it over text

Say

“Are you always this talkative”

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D

0 Posts (+0), 33 Cmts (+4)

I think the mistake here is continuing your game in private message. Should've also re introduce yourself like "its me from the app thing" and have a more normal conversation because texts seem cringe. Open her again with normal question such as are you from here originally, or what are you up to, etc. Remember that she said she is busy and doesn't have time to waste so don't say things that have no purpose

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A

7 Posts (+8), 18 Cmts (+6)

By continuing, you mean replying to the Bumble message, right? Should’ve just waited for her to text back?

Also, ouch text was normal me conversation. I’ve got a long way to go lol

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D

0 Posts (+0), 33 Cmts (+4)

Yea. You want to be gamey at beginning, form basic chemistry and then on private, your purpose should be meeting her and sexualizing a bit depending on the type of girl.

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M

55 Posts (+3), 250 Cmts (-275)

You're being way too gamey imo

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A

7 Posts (+8), 18 Cmts (+6)

Really? In this conversation (mainly referring to the texts), I was just trying to be myself. Any specific spots you think I was too gamey or just overall?

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