Girl I've been talking to for a while is going to fly out to visit me for the first time. She's mentioned a few times though that tickets can be pricey and she needs to plan around that (I don't think she's fishing for me to help, but maybe?).
Obviously I'm not going to send her money, but should I offer to reimburse part of the cost when she's here? Or will that make me a findommed beta cuckboi?
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Well, that's upto you. I don't think you offering to reimburse her half a ticket is gonna make you a cuck. So, I wouldn't worry about that part
I'd have to agree with Eric here but damn can I relate to your situation... many moons ago I was single and NO sex for 4 years straight. the worst part was girls were constantly hitting on me but I had no clue how to bridge to the bedroom. ended up doing a fun long distance relationship and eventually brought them to live with me. but the moment they felt entitled to their "space", all we did was argue, and I went thru a horrible breakup that stung for two years. once that bridge to your bedroom is constructed with beautiful strangers crossing over on YOUR terms... long distance relationships are a thing of the past. is what it is. why run electricity from your car battery into your home when you can tap into the wall outlets. all you gotta do is establish a connection ;-)
12 Posts (+8), 84 Cmts (+36)
Never send money to someone you haven’t met in real life.
If you really like her do a couple of video calls first.
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Bro, why do you want to see someone so far away? Is your city full of nothing but dudes? Look at it like this, what happens on the next date or the one after that, do you really want to constantly be sinking money into plan tickets? But just FYI this is a type of scam people
Do run, make sure she’s not some scammer. I wouldn’t pay for anything if it were me
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Celebs fly out girls the time to fuck. If you can afford it do it. It's just makes everything easier