Should I keep persisting or ditch this girl
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I met this chick off Tinder, and we went on a date two weeks ago. We decided to get drinks. She was a little bit crazy and drank too much, even though I told her to stop. She ended up passing out and had to call a friend to drive her home lol. Now Im trying to text her but she's being super cold. What should I do and what should I text her?
Thanks fellas
Saturday
Me: Hey, text me tomorrow letting me know you're ok
Girl: Hey. I'm okay. Thanks for asking
Me: Im disappointed how our night ended. Next time we'll drink less :)
Girl:Okay. I'm so sorry I passed out.
Tuesday
Me: Have you finished himym yet?
Girl: What
Me: How I met your mother. You're probably done
Girl:No. Season 7.I didn't get enough time
Me: Season 7 onwards is not so legendary haha (inside joke)
Girl: Haha
Me: Doing anything fun this weekend?
Girl: Working
Me: When did working become fun
Girl: Haha
Me: So which days are you working
Girl: Fri Sat Sun
Me: Rip we gotta help you destress
Wednesday
Girl: True. Soz had been busy
Thursday
Sent her two memes,no response
Tuesday
Sent her a picture of me hanging out with my hot friend
Girl: Who is she
Me: My Hawaiian friend. How's your weekend
Girl: Goin to scary lmao (scary is a bar)
Me: Now?
2 hours later sent her a picture of me drinking with my friends
Girl: I Didn't go
Wednesday
Me: Friends ditch you?
Thursday
Me: And the best texter award goes to....
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
It is really hard to get a second date in general when the first date doesn't go well, even it is is not your fault. I have been on a lot of dates and actually never experienced this "girl getting too drunk " thing . I think is the huge reason for this is that because I keep her very engaged, escalate fast , and pull fast. I am not sure how long you were at the bar, but for me when I do the public date, it is very rare than we will be at the bard for more than an hour. 2 hours is the absolute max, and this is only if she is the only difficult case . If you pull fast, the girl physically doesn't have enough time to get wasted.
Another big issue is was this text "Im disappointed how our night ended. Next time we'll drink less :)". it is basically a form of shaming that plummets your chance on getting another date.
At this point, I would just learn from the mistakes and move on to the next one:)