Shit-test or sexualise?

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J

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J

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I think i should have lead her on a bit more by saying "Theyre pretty R rated, are you sure you can handle that?" but you live and learn. Not sure if this is a little bit of a shit test or an oppertunity to sexualise. Her lack of investment makes me think shit test. Im thinking of saying something like "Something best discussed over a bottle of wine". Thoughts?

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avilench . Avatar

393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)

yeah man. Your last few texts are way too gamey. You don't have to bait a girl who says that she loves to masturbate. After she said that I probably would have followed up with "While fantasizing about me I assume?" or "Pics, or it didn't happen"

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J

8 Posts (+9), 33 Cmts (+20)

Thanks for the advice man. I'll keep it in mind for when a girl sexualised the conversation next time.

How would you continue this from here?

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J

8 Posts (+9), 33 Cmts (+20)

Never mind, she just unmatched me even tho I didnt respond. WTF

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Enrique B Avatar

12 Posts (+12), 81 Cmts (+41)

Some high value girls get annoyed waiting. Impatient. you were doing good. “Just missing s little bit of “her name” and I’m set”

Could have been a good answer

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J

8 Posts (+9), 33 Cmts (+20)

Bro..I woke up this morning and its like she never unmatched me. I cant tell if this is a glitch or something you can do with tinder platinum

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Clinton Woodall Avatar

118 Posts (+42), 716 Cmts (+312)

Take this with a grain of salt, sexting hasn’t been my strong suit. With that said, I might reply “giving hotties multiple screaming orgasms”, I think you can be open cause she was (talking about masturbating)

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J

8 Posts (+9), 33 Cmts (+20)

Yh im just not sure sexualising is the right way to go here, very low investment. This has happened before where the girl mentioned something explicitly sexual, I escalated and she unmatched.

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Sam Miller Avatar

8 Posts (+10), 580 Cmts (+268)

You're right, sexualising prob wasn't ideal. She was probably fucking with you. I love these types of girls because they're very honest and have a funny, crass sense of humor. They can be a little difficult sometimes but I would have trolled her back a little. Something like "shit same, normally I'll just spend all day stroking my 16inch cock" - maybe something different depends on your humor but that was off the top of my head. Anyway, move to the next. Goodluck bro.

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J

8 Posts (+9), 33 Cmts (+20)

Or maybe I could say "first, are you submissive?"

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Clinton Woodall Avatar

118 Posts (+42), 716 Cmts (+312)

I like your idea of asking, because it’s somewhat making her invest and chase.

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J

8 Posts (+9), 33 Cmts (+20)

Yo this girl unmatched me yesterday for sure, woke up this morning and she's back WTF.

Like she never unmatched me in the first place, has anyone had this happen?

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