Hi guys, I have an interesting one.
I've been chasing this girl for a year now, only made out twice in this time. She's a milf who thinks herself a princess that wants a knight in shiny armor and at the same time a guy that can dominate her. I met her at the office and having into account that I am a few years younger than her (she doesn't like younger) and that she's concerned about hooking up with a guy from work, the shit tests are non stop. (She also thinks that I have to pay for her lunch and things which I plainly refuse. According to her, if you don't pay for her stuff you don't value her)
I reengaged with her recently saying that she was appearing in my dreams without an invitation and by trying to implement Alex's material I am trying to move things forward by being more explicit. I think is working reading the screenshots but I don't know if the last message is a shit test or a legitimate concern that I haven't address yet. How should I continue?
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Is this the only girl you’re focused on? Are you sleeping with anyone else? Getting the smell of pussy on you will make more of a difference than anything. This one girl doesn’t matter that much.
Regardless it sounds like she’s getting your attention for free. Take away your attention. Communicate, without explicitly saying, that if she wants your attention she’s gonna have to fuck you for it. Sometimes it’s just not gonna happen though.
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No, I always try work in multiple fronts. I had a date with another girl from the office and the milf was aware of that, I don't know how she found out but she wasn't happy with it, so yeah, she knows I have preselection.
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“You’ve kept quiet and played it safe too long”
I think that’s the real issue. She has kinda friend zoned you in her mind. And then when you go super sexual she spots the incongruence. The dinner and all that is nonsense
Another thing, do you still work there? Because this could backfire if you do
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You can try
“Ofcourse. I’ll be honest, you just didn’t strike me as the sugar baby type”
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It could be yes, though I always try to fuck girls with the eyes so they are well aware of my intentions. Since she confessed that she was nervous and excited around me but doesn't allow me to progress too much, it's hard to tell if she's a time waster, legitimaly friend zoned me or since she has 2 kids, maybe she is somewhat a prude. Yes, I still work there, though we barely see each other in the office.