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Hmm maybe "hey now, I'm talking about 4th graders here. Don't you think that's a little weird?" and get her self qualifying that she's not a weirdo
44 Posts (+21), 550 Cmts (+363)
Hmm maybe "hey now, I'm talking about 4th graders here. Don't you think that's a little weird?" and get her self qualifying that she's not a weirdo
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Any chance we can see what the girl kinda looks like? I find Alex uses this line when the girl looks more dtf. You also need a plan for the flow with these kind of questions beforehand or else you’ll always be in the forum asking for next steps. I’m doing this now, writing down openers and quick responses to potential responses.
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Really good point. I watched about 15 of Alex's videos where he goes through bumble hinge and tinder matches in real time, and addresses them one by one. I got about 8 pages of messages from those, loosely organized - and I'm sure it could be more comprehensively annotated - but that's been helpful and I even tweak those to my own personality and strengths. Anyone can take a few hours, with a pen and notebook, and do the same.