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"Sorry to hear you've had bad experiences with subpar men. I just see flirting as a delicate fun dance to capture each other's humor and emotions. And obviously building massive amounts of tension on top of that. Besides, with me, you'll just get massive amounts of pleasure and never feel like you're losing something"
2 Posts (+1), 6 Cmts (+3)
She’s using past experiences where flirting led to sex as a guide.
I’d say either completely disregard the idea you just want to smash by making her understand there is no pressure at all to do anything your just tryna vibe with her.
Or take the risky approach and spin how she’s feeling afraid of being used because your flirting by saying something like “would you still feel that way if the last guy that flirted with you was still with you? Me flirting doesn’t mean a one night stand”
2 Posts (+1), 6 Cmts (+3)
Flirting is generally how the opposite sex builds relationships with each other so her logic is pretty flawed