She's "not looking for anything"

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M

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M

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So heres the screenshot. I get the vibe she had a bad breakup, OR im not gonna ignore the major possibility she was just being nice and isnt interested. For context, this is a girl i worked with a couple years back and recently found on Insta and hit up (was a bit of a pussy back then, big regret of mine is not talking to her more then although in fairness at the time she had a bf). Again its not Tinder so theres not that social contract, she never asked to talk to me and i dont want to be a dick and overstep because i hate when guys get pushy, but i do know like Alex says theres a difference between needy and persistent. Complete honesty my gut feeling here is to just take a knee, she's not interested which i completely understand and respect, and I feel like the best course of action is to let this one go, but i wanted a second opinion first.

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Pancake Mouse Avatar

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my gut feeling here is to just take a knee, she's not interested which i completely understand and respect, and I feel like the best course of action is to let this one go

Yes. She's not interested (in you)

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M

62 Posts (+9), 80 Cmts (+9)

Yea, after posting this i actually talked to a friend who said he saw her on Tinder so she's definitely looking for someone just not me haha

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avilench . Avatar

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i would probably try a bit more before giving up personally. I would respond with "i appreciate honesty, but when did i say anything about starting something"

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M

62 Posts (+9), 80 Cmts (+9)

I get that, honestly I feel like someone with your skill at texting could pull off the reverse but i literally just used the romantic date line i have no idea how i would've recalibrated to make it seem like i didn't want to start something while trying to start something you know? Because I mean obviously i do want to start something with her

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avilench . Avatar

393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)

i know, but game is emotional and not logical. Give it at shot what do you have to lose.

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C

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Lol, do you hate dating

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M

62 Posts (+9), 80 Cmts (+9)

What? No lol, thats actually my goal being on all these dating apps and taking these chances. Why would you think that?

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C

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No i mean message her that, flip the frame

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