She's leaving town
Met this girl off Bumble. Things moved pretty quickly she actually gave me her number before I asked. The first screenshot from Bumble shows an objection she had as far as coming over but it seemed like that was handled i included it because what happens later is imo related to this, after that exchange is when she gave me her number (Netflix was my version of "do you like wine" since im not really a big drinker). Anyway, after planning our date we texted for a while had some engaging conversations about things and hobbies we had in common, could tell from the length of her messages she was interested. Cut to today, i reopened her with the Ryan Gosling meme after a few days of not texting (conversation just ended naturally, didnt want to text too much before the date) and she sends me this message. She is an actress so i could be wrong but it seems like a legit excuse. My opinion on this based also on the bumble objection is shes basically saying she's not looking for anything short term so theres no point in us just meeting and potentially just hooking up. Anyway to save this or do I let it go? My goal is dating but at the same time she's very attractive so I wouldn't mind a hookup and maybe more when/if she comes back to Chicago.



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I would just try to meet her and hookup so she can hit you up whenever she gets back into town
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Any tips on what to say to convince her to get together?