She’s calling me out for wanting to bang, how to handle properly.
For context, was supposed to link this girl Saturday but her hair wasn’t ready so she got shy and said Sunday. Sunday came and nothing happened. And the following texts happened. She randomly asked do I want to smash, I had been sexually flirting and it had some kinda reaction that was flirty and banter but nothing legit. The plan was public date anyway. But I had referred to watching a film at hers previously, which she didn’t really want to do.
How do I handle this moving forward? The egg reference is because I asked for a photo to prove she ain’t a cat fish and she said she’s an egg. I tried to brush it off and flip it back on her and it’s worked somewhat to try and make it flirty and funny but I don’t know where to take it next. Should I just tell her straight up let’s do it? She might just pull back like before.
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So the egg joke is kind of overplayed, and the way you act like she's trying to be the one trying to fuck is like a no go...she's texting back probably just because bored. And the smashing part is just a shyt test and you didn't past. The only thing to do is let go of egg joke and everything else. And be affirmative, tell her you weren't planning to fuck on the first date and you just wanted to get to know her. Alex's line" I can't have sex with someone who I don't have chemistry with" something like that. So plan is meet up build chemistry build sexual tension in person and then fuck
Yeah this sounds like a good plan. Tbh it’s the first time it’s happened and I was freestyling it.
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I can tell this is more self amusment for u, I get it. But men in general should not have to deal with this. Not every p&**** is good p***** protect ur energy bro. I feel I lost testerone, reading her masculine energy . .bro dodged a bullet f** that a train..
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You blatantly said fucking. When she asked you "What are we doing", I would have been a bit more subtle
"Get to know each other, drink wine, build some chemistry and lots of sexual tension. Possible booty massage if we like each other". Her concern grew by you being so blatant
Definately a big shit test. I failed one just like it but not the direction your going. I actually told her over the phone I'm down to smash on the first date but I'm also down to build chemistry and kindle something. Proceeded to set the date.
I failed the second one which was her flaking lol. Thay was on me was definately possible tho the fact shes talling to you means shes interested no matter how small there is a chance.
I'd find the smoothest way to sexualize this conversation. imo she would like the right person to smash shes testing you and you just gotta prove your self.
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Bro I'm dying reading your messages. You are one funny cunt trying to flip that shit back on her. Do you not remember what I said about this girl having concerns around sex? All you needed to say was something like "Of course I enjoy sex, but it's very imprtant for me to have chemistry with a girl before anything happens". I hope you bang this girl cos it would be one legendary turnaround
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😂 sometimes I just freestyle it and try to work out of it, I’ve done it before but it don’t work all the time.
I’ve told her the whole chemistry first thing and said when she’s free let’s do something she said she’ll let me know. So I’ll just hit her up later in the week.
My problem is sometimes I troll these girls and get lost in the process 😂 I’m used to the brotherly banter with the guys but I gotta remember it’s different with the girls.